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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Where Are The Dark(side) Girls?!


What women want - it's one of those questions that, if left to rattle around in a man's head for too long, tend to cause time and sanity to bend and augment the space/time continuum for a brief moment. Well, they result in a slight headache at least.


After glancing through my usual list of blogs, I first notice that I'm terribly jobless and need to get buried in mindless employment as soon as possible. After jettisoning that thought from my mind, I then realised that most of the blogs I read are by women; to be exact, 11 out of the 16 blogs I've bookmarked. No good conclusion can come from that train of thought, so I threw that one overboard without a life jacket as well, so to speak. I then realised that most of these writers had written a post about their 'perfect' man, or at least certain qualities that said hypothetical fairy tale individual should possess.


As expected, some were straight forward and some were, well, unique. Of course, he has to be tall and be 'nice' and 'understand them' and not have a vagina. Then there is the 'able to sing/play instrument' which is doing the rounds nowadays. Then there were the more interesting points, such as 'having a nice accent' and 'know how to start a bbq fire'. Naturally, while men are busy with hair gel, cologne and nose tweezers, the women are fantasizing about the geographical origins of his accent. A perfect example of how we know nothing about the female species. As for the barbecue fire, I can only imagine that she's some kind of pyro or really digs the smell of well cooked meat. Hmmm.


While there's nothing wrong in listing out a set of requirements for the man of your hopelessly unrealistic dreams, it is a tad dull especially when considering the women's lists. Most of the time they're just so confusing and, well, LONG! Either the list is full of cliches, or the points just contradict the very fabric of being male. For example; they want us to be calm and soft spoken. We're men, we want to blow things up all the time. We watch "Rambo" and "Die Hard" for pete's sake! We're just itching to destroy the first dude that looks at our girl the wrong way, and let's face it, you like that too! But no, calm and soft spoken to the girl, crazy homicidal maniac with the creeps. The perfect man is apparently 'Two Face'.


Sure, maybe I'm being too general. Who am I to speak for the entire female nation? But I am however an expert on, well, me.


I'm not exactly well versed in the art of love - I've been lucky enough to somehow trick two girls to agree to be my girlfriend, and to be honest expecting more would be pushing it. But still, I have some level of experience, and that should count. As most women say, I don't require much, and, just like most women, I don't mean it. I have many things which I would want 'her' to possess, most of which probably won't make sense but I'm not in the mood to explain, so let's just get down to the big one.


And that is wisdom.


It is often said that trust and love is the most important foundation for a relationship, and to a large extent I believe that. From my past two relationships, the bulk of the problems always originated from trust - either having too little of it or having too much of it. However, I like to think that if my girlfriend has a good head on her shoulders, that would enable me to be able to trust her so much more easily. The same goes for love, because love and respect are almost always intertwined, and hence being able to respect a girl would lead to being able to love her more.


(And that paragraph is the most amount of emo-mumbo-jumbo that you will see on this blog for a long, LONG time!)


Sure, I want her to be hot too! Who wouldn't? I'd like if she was attractive and humorous, a good conversationalist, at least a bit of a sports fan, and have a big heart. But honestly, the day I meet 'the one', I know that it won't be her fantastic legs that draw me to her, nor her magnetic attraction to my very strong shoulders.


No, it will be her sharp mind. The kind of mind that will be able to throw some of my darkside comments right back at me, along with her own version of my evil grin.


Ah, girl from the darkside - wherefore art thou already?!

8 comments:

alicia said...

nice post.
however i would like you to explain to me this.. "From my past two relationships, the bulk of the problems always originated from trust - either having too little of it or having too much of it."
but then ofcourse , you can choose not to if you dont want to.

Sabby said...

Yea yea...'No, it will be her sharp mind.'

My ass it will. All men say that. But when they meet an extremely witty girl, the girl ends up being the 'BFF' for life and have to hang around listening to how hot the girl they met last night were. *mumble mumble* Men are so full of it (Generalizing? Maybe. Bite me. heehee)

AND, Mister....the bbq fire bit was purely because I went to a bbq once and none of the men knew how to start it and another girl and I ended up doing it. Sucked. Which is when I decided all MEN should know how to start one. It's like how you men say all women should know how to cook. =) Fair enough, innit?

Gehan said...

lol.. welcome back sabby :)

you have obviously not seen "made of honor".. lol... see how that turns out in the end ;) anyways, im jus talkin from experience, tats all.. n yea, dnt generalise!! :P

as for the bbq explanation.. damn i was hopin for somethin more.. i dunno.. exciting! :D ah well..

Jerry said...

How could they NOT know how to start a fire? I mean, how hard is it to light it up? People DIE in fires. And only stupid people die in fires cos, well, look at em. The average fire travels at say... one mile a day?

Who the hell is dumb enough to die like that? "Oh lord! The flame's catching up to me! What do I doooo?"

...Aanyway, if if a dumbass who dies in fires can light a fire, anyone can.

:D


And I like generalizing too!ohmygod!

@sabby: All your "male" friends are gay.
:P

Scrumpulicious said...

Sabby said...
Yea yea...'No, it will be her sharp mind.'

My ass it will. All men say that. But when they meet an extremely witty girl, the girl ends up being the 'BFF' for life and have to hang around listening to how hot the girl they met last night were. *mumble mumble* Men are so full of it (Generalizing? Maybe. Bite me. heehee)


Oh, I know this feeling all too well!

Gehan said...

@ jerry = lol

@ scrumpy = tsk tsk, yall jus been around da wrong men ;) jus calling it da way i see it :)

N said...

"The average fire travels at say... one mile a day" - obviously you haven't seen a Californian wildfire being driven by the Santa Anas...

T said...

:)

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